does this mean 'because of all these things that you imagine' or is it also readable as 'because of all these things that happen to you (as in life)'?
I'm trying to figure out if I should continue a 20-year friendship. This person didn't tell me they got married. He said "si no estamos mas unidos es por todas estas cosas que se te ocurren" Is it mean? Straightforward? Is he blaming me for his choice to be a stranger? We had a fight a year ago and I accused him of hurting me but later I took it back and I thought we made up. Obviously not! This is very upsetting. It looks like I need to never contact him again. It's hard.